How to Prepare for Family Photos (and Actually Enjoy It, Yes, Even Dad)

Let’s be honest,  prepping for family photos can feel a lot like trying to get everyone dressed and out the door for church, but with more outfits, less snacks, and way more bribery. But it doesn’t have to be that way. With a little planning, the right mindset, and a deep breath (or three), you can actually enjoy the process and walk away with memories that feel as real as the love that created them.

Here’s how to prepare for your session, the relaxed, real-life, totally doable way.

1. Lower the bar. For real.

You do not need matching outfits, Pinterest-perfect hair, or kids who magically act like tiny angels. I promise. The magic happens in the moments in between,  the bear hugs, the nose scrunches, the messy hair and muddy boots. That’s the good stuff. That’s what we’re capturing.

2. Outfits: Start with you, then build around it.

Find something you feel amazing in first. Something you can move in, laugh in, snuggle a kid in. Then coordinate the family’s outfits around your look. Think warm neutrals, soft textures, and clothedon’t have to tug at all session. You want to feel like yourself; just a little elevated.

3. Let the kids be kids.

They’ll wiggle. They’ll run. They might even cry. It’s all part of it. I’ll guide the session gently with prompts and direction that let your family just be. You don’t have to make them “behave.” You just need to show up and love on them like you do every other day; I’ll take care of the rest.

4. Don’t forget about Dad.

Look, I know he probably didn’t volunteer for this. But remind him this isn’t about posing awkwardly or faking smiles, it’s about real connection. Snuggling his kids. Laughing with you. Being part of the story. He doesn’t have to be a model, just present. And trust me, dads always end up having more fun than they expect (even if they pretend not to admit it).

5. Pack light. Keep it simple.

Wipes, snacks, maybe one favorite toy or blanket, that’s it. The less you have to juggle, the more present you can be. Oh, and please don’t forget the bribes; I mean, treats,  for after the session. Ice cream is always a win.

6. Embrace the chaos.

The best photos come from movement, connection, and letting go. Don’t worry if someone’s hair is out of place or if your toddler insists on being upside down for half the session. Those are the moments that will matter most later, not the perfect poses, but the proof that you were there, loving them wildly.

Final Thought: These photos are for you, too.

Moms are so often the memory keepers, always behind the camera, rarely in front. This is your reminder: you deserve to be seen in these moments, just as much as your kids do. You’ll want to remember what this season felt like. And they’ll want to remember that you were there.

So come as you are,  messy bun, tired eyes, full heart and all. I’ll meet you there, camera in hand.

Ready to book your session?

Let’s create something real together. Reach out and I’ll help you every step of the way, from outfit planning to calming toddler chaos. No perfection required, just love and laughter.